This might be long for a blog, and I promise they all won’t be this long, but I’ve got something on my mind.
If you ever wondered how much of an impact high school football coaches (well, the good ones, anyway) have on their players and the community, put your ear to the ground right about now.
Whether it’s Edinburg’s Robert Vela courageously battling stomach cancer and defying death day after day, or San Benito coach Mario Peña suffering a painful broken leg/hip injury during practice, just by asking around you can feel how much coaches, notably these two, are beloved, especially in the Rio Grande Valley.
Now by no means am I comparing Vela’s battle for life to Peña’s injury. We all know Vela needs more of our prayers at the moment. I merely mention both cases to prove that no matter what, the really good coaches (and these two definitely fall into that category) are beloved on AND off the field.
About Vela, I’ve only interviewed him once (last year after San Benito came back to win a 14-9 nailbiter win Week One) and he was gracious in defeat and really respectful, just like he’s always been to everyone. But this week I’ve heard so many stories of how he’s touched people’s lives and what people think of him. It’s truly remarkable. No doubt about it, Robert Vela is one of the good guys in Valley football. Always will be.
To see him on television earlier this week really saddened me. He’s lost a considerable amount of weight and the illness has taken its toll on him. But I just felt that he did not look like the Coach Vela we all know. That’s when the seriousness of this cruel disease sets in. I can’t even imagine how he and his family feel, but I know that I’m pulling very hard for him to beat this.
In Peña’s case, it’s painful to even imagine the pain he went though Thursday morning. It’s been a difficult year for the veteran coach, having undergone hip replacement surgery earlier this year, and now this? We always figured Peña was a tough, hard-nosed, no-nonsense kind of coach, but now there’s no doubt. He’s a strong man and I’m sure he’s appreciating all of the countless well-wishes he’s gotten over the weekend. I’ve talked to him on numerous occasions over the years and even though I don’t know him personally, I know him well enough to know that he’s a fighter and he’ll be coaching his ‘Hounds any way he can as soon as he can.
Here’s to hoping both of these great coaches (and men) make it through these personal battles and back onto the field as soon as possible. One thing’s for sure: they’ve got the support of not only Bobcat and Greyhound fans, but Valley football fans in general.
{As it was reported Saturday, Coach Robert Vela succumbed to cancer at the age of 61. Being I only met him once, I’m glad and proud to say I shook his hand. Growing up on Valley football since I was a kid, it was like we all knew Vela.
Remember when local H-E-Bs had big blown up photos of the local football team as you exited the store? At Elsa’s small store (which I worked at for about 3 years) the photo of Vela in his black and gold leading La Maquina Amarilla long after he left in 96-97, five to six years to be exact. I remember asking someone why it was still up, and the response? “Cause that’s Coach Vela and the Jackets. That guy’s loved here.”
Couldn’t have said it better myself. My condolences to the Vela and Edinburg Bobcat families. Coach, it was an honor and you will be missed. AG}